Sentintal value can only work when two people are equal or disadvantaed people still et the nistandards. 情感价值只有在男女双方条件匹配或者条件差但是没有低于自己的最低标准，这时候的情感价值才能锦上添花。 If you are still courted by reed to handle what exceeds one''''s abilities when you don''''t et the requirents, you y run into so lecher n and be his stress. 条件不对等，你却还要不认命地飞蛾扑火，强行去做超出自己能力的事情，很可能会让自己遇到外面的“采花贼”被小三了。 The self-cultivation of a won is to try our best to ke these delinquent people out of our social circle. All n who "wander" outside are not worthy of one lance of a ood won, whatever the excuses are. 一个女人的自我修炼就是想努力把那些作风不好，不受道德束缚的人排除出自己的社交圈，所有在外“游荡”的男人不管有什么理由都是不值得好女人一个眼神的。 A real outstandin n st be overconfident and self-conceited, like a won. They are the hardest to et close to, althouh they y look entle, polite, and dest unless you have sothin worthwhile that attracts the 真正优秀的男人一般都有着一颗骄傲自负的心，这一点和我们女人是一样的，别看他们平时文质彬彬谦恭有礼，其实是最难靠近的，除非你自己有值得让对方靠近的价值。 We are the sa in ny thins, althouh??n and won are different in ender. 男女虽然性别不同，但是在很多事情上的态度是一样的。 So the true entlen will not co to the entertainnt parlor while the n who arrives is no ood. 所以真正的君子是不会来歌伎坊，来歌伎坊的男人就与好字无缘。 Most n who co to the entertainnt parlor are here to flirt with beautiful won. Won like us will surely be their stresses outside or their secret lovers or secret affair if we entrust ourselves to a n like this. 这些来歌伎坊的男人大多都是图我们女人的色相而已，像我们这样的女子若把自己的终身托付给这些男人一定会让自己成为他们的外室，成为他们的秘密情人或者见不得人的外遇。 It can be a ood endin if they kick us out when they et tired of us soday. At least you are with a wealthy youn ster. If you are blind and et a ruthless swindler, They will sell you and ke you their ney-kin tool. Then you will be re serable. 等到玩腻的那一天就一脚踹开，遇到这样的结局还算好的，至少自己遇到的是真正的有钱人，真正的富贵公子，若是自己有眼无珠，遇到一些不怀好意的骗子，把自己卖掉去赚钱，成为他们的赚钱工具，那就更凄苦了。 It’s norl and understandable to et a casual and eleant youn n like Master Li, who